i think vin di carlo's escalation ladder is decent even though i don't follow it. one thing he says which is really cool is when you're making out with a girl like on your bed or couch lift up your shirt and hers so your bare stomachs are grinding. that turns her on. also when you start fingering a girl go down the back of her pants, which is true cause you do get less objections that way if you can get your fucking fingers around in a cramped space. i always end up on top in the beginning for some reason..
actually whatever, it's helpful though to remember that grinding and foreplay shit can lower lmr even though it can be boring (although it is cool feeling to make her cum even without you being that turned on) and i've been known a time or two to try to just pounce on the fucking girl only to have her say no and create some bad momentum i have to overcome. in my skewed world makeouts should automatically mean i'm getting laid right away. that's just me being bitter.
these days i caveman more though. the escalation ladder is a little too pretty for my taste.
oh - caution. warning. peter grimm is not telling anyone to caveman a chick. no means no.
