Dating a stripper

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Hey guys, don't need directions as I have a pretty good idea how I'll handle this, but thought I'd see if anyone had any special tips for me.

Met this stripper a few months back when I was just starting to learn about PUA... got her to go out with me, but at the time I still didn't know much and was pretty AFC. She's also been pretty busy -- she told me when we first met and i asked her if she had a boyfriend that she was just too busy for one... at the time I thought that was just what she tells all the guys at the club but after I got to know her better found out that it really was true... she has a godson who was living with her at the time so between him and the club, she just didn't have a lot of time for going out... but that has changed now the godson is going back to live with his mother in a week and a half.

Besides going out we've talked on the phone and texted a bit... I pretty much dropped her for a bit over a month when my ex came back to live with me because I just didn't want the drama if my ex found out it wouldn't have been worth it even tho the divorce is almost final she'd still freak and since she was living with me and the terms weren't finalized at the time I didn't want to fuck around with it... but now the ex is gone, terms are finalized, and it'll be final mid sept... went to the club and saw her for the first time in about 5 or 6 weeks last night. Man is she so hot -- let's put it this way she is just MY type... the first time I met her one of the first things I said to her was 'if I had to ask god to create a woman for me, physically you'd be it' -- and meant it -- not exactly by the book PUA but it definitely worked. She told me it was the nicest compliment anyone had given her in a LONG time.

she has had flaking issues on a couple of our get togethers in the past but last night when I came and saw her she actually brought up us going out outside the club before I did even.... she doesn't seem to have quite as much drama and issues as a lot of the other strippers do, the flakiness seems to be the main drawback. i know the potential issues with seeing a stripper but she's worth the hassle to me... I don't think she's looking for anything serious, which is good because I'm not either... at this point she knows I'm not some needy guy or a stalker, i think she just thinks I'm a guy she can go out and have fun with... and I am totally down for that. I think basically she is open for the taking for me and I just have to play my cards right and not blow it.

I think I know how I'm going to handle it, but thought I'd ask if anyone had any particular tips. I really think all I have to do is lead and be non-AFC and I'm in, which I plan to :) But never having dated a stripper before, always willing to listen to those who have gone before me ;)

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Does a stripper fuck better than the avg girl?

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I'll let you know.. haha... she's definitely got the moves/grinding skills down ;) sure it depends on the girl tho

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Strippers are fun because they're generally fucking crazy!

Everyone should date one at least once...

I'd say they aren't any better or worse than average chicks in the sack.

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Ahh Stripperville! Where every man wants to go, but can't wait to leave! Its kind of like HOTEL CALIfornia.

-Don't get your heart wrapped up into it.
-Don't get jealous.
-Realize there are 50 other dicks standing in line and she has all their numbers in her phone.
-Don't expect it to last long.
-Party like a rockstar while it lasts.
-Make sure that you don't buy dances from her. Separate yourself from "customer" status as far as you can.

The ones I've been around were fun to party with and knew how to blow $$. They all keep crazy hours. And strippers(uhh I mean "dancers") operate on what I call "stripper time"! When they say they'll be there in 5 minutes that can mean anywhere from 20minutes - 2hrs.

oh yeah I LUV STRIPPERS!

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LOL howie yeah I know better than to get too involved... i'm cool with the 'she's a stripper thing' and i've seen her get texts from'em when we've gotten together outside of 'work' before... if i were wanting her to be my long term girlfriend or something it might be different but like i said right now not looking for anything too serious and just want to have fun so yeah i'm gonna party like a rockstar with her and have fun. ;)

i think this one's a winner because she's just crazy enough to be fun but not as crazy/dramatic as the average stripper ;) at least i hope!

i just wanna have fun with her... and have fun hittin' that ;)

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"I'm in love with a stripper!!" - T-Pain

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i think this one's a winner because she's just crazy enough to be fun but not as crazy/dramatic as the average stripper ;)
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Ha ha let us know in a month if you still think that way! I think I've said the same thing before too. There are a few really sweet ones that shouldn't be in the bizznizz, thats the ones I like to rescue. So if you want to go on a rescue mission deep into the jungle hit me up. Well to be honest even if they're not sweet I like to rescue them. :-)