What do you do after you get the number?

[Guest]

Ok............I've completely ripped my game apart and tried to start over from the beginning..............I've just been working on opening the past few months..........I've gotten much better at it, and I"ve held off trying to get numbers.

Well now I'm getting them and don't know what the hell to do with them. I got one from a girl tonight that I talked to and later danced with a few times and towards the end of the night I saw her again and asked her to dance and she said she was ready to go home and was waiting on her friend that was dancing...........so I feel like i screwed that up............i don't know what's everyone's take on this???

I've mentioned on here a few times that I've been holding off on getting numbers because I think they are so easy to get and they are..........women never say no...........but they ofter never return my calls. Drives me nuts.

I think it's just the next stage in my learning process......(along with dealing with their fat friends).

Seriuosly.....what do you guys do after you get the number?




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I texted her before I ran into her at the end of the night....................she just resoneded.......I'm so exiceted............i know........it's stuped. She's smokin hot

but still.......i need help with this stuff.

[Guest]

Numbers...PFFFT

You are right...they are so easy to get. I will get 4 or 5 numbers in a night and just delete all but one or two the next day. I know most of them are garbage and unfortunately I am very lazy when it comes to chasing women.

I typically wait 1-5 days before I initiate contact with the girl. You are almost definitely going to get a response that says: Who is this?

So what I recommend when you number close is stay in set for another few/many minutes. What I like to do is right there send them a text. I don't tell them I am sending it but I will say something like: Hey Crazy Lady! Or something fun like that. She will almost surely respond right away knowing it is you who sent it. Then while you guys are talking you can keep sending fun texts back and forth. This is a good way to build attraction and a lot of times build a sexual frame.

The nice thing about doing this though is now she has your number saved and you won't get the stupid line of who is this.

Also whenever a girl says who is this I always respond with geeze how many guys did you hit on Saturday night.

Know this...since you can get numbers so easy get ready for a shitload of flakes and girls who just don't respond. Also know that most of these girls are not going to put forth any effort. If you don't send open ended texts it's not like she is going to start the convo. It is a lot of work so get ready for it.

[Guest]

It's good to inside jokes and nicknames when sarging. That way when she says "who's this?" you can say something like "it's the mack daddy" or "it's the guy who marries the ketchups" and she'll not only remember who you are, she'll instantly put herself back into the state she had at that time.

[Guest]

I agree, I have started to get a feel for when a girl is going to flake on me or not. Recently, I have not even taken the number of a girl that I think will flake because it is a waste of time. I usually make sure I have done a lot of qualification and comfort and then you are virtually guaranteed at least a text response.

Another approach to make sure she knows who you are is to simply put your name at the end of the first text. I almost always use callback humor for this. I think I will try the texting while I am still in set too. That sounds good

[Guest]

I tell them I am sending them something inappropriate, then I send them, "Nice ass!"