Inner confidence issues for me

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I guess the next time I get out with a woman and she refuses to drink, I'm gonna try my hardest to peer pressure her into it, but if she won't drink, I'll just say I gotta get going and bold immediately. No sense trying to force something that ain't gonna happen anyway.
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Just TELL them beforehand that you are going out for drinks. You're not going for dinner or a movie, you're going for drinks.
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exactly. the exact thing i say is "let's go grab some drinks" ..it's really that simple!

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I agree with Lion, I mean sometimes skipping it and inviting her to watch a movie will save you a whole lot of time.

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[quote1211324506=Lion]
If they refuse to drink make fun of them until they give in. [/quote1211324506]

is this serious? i dont agree with that at all. thats like having sex with a girl after pressuring her to play just the tip for 20 minutes. no one should be persuaded to do anything. the girl should [i]want[/i] to drink with you, not feel as if she has to because she's seeking validation from having her self esteem lowered.