Rhody wrote:I'm glad you said something, because that's where the guy really lost me.
Cracking up at this.
Rhody wrote:He's saying that goth chicks dye their hair, pierce their faces, tattoo their bodies, and dress up in costumes because they are comfortable in their own skin. Quite the opposite. I know several goth chicks, and they are insecure. In fact, the more they grow up, the more they realize how silly they used to be. Don't get me wrong, they can be hot and together women, but they try so much harder than the natural girl next door to get noticed.
Exactly why we have a 'goth' (hip-hop/thug/metal/skater/stoner/peacocked) stereotype in the first place.
Rhody wrote:Oh, and HB10s are insecure, sure. But they are not just as insecure as a UG4 or UG5. HB10s are conditioned to know that they are the prize in certain environments. The point is not that a HB10 is the same as a UG5, [i]the point is that you have to TREAT them the same. As soon as you treat them special because they are HB10, you fall into their frame and you lose. That's the beauty of the mASF guy's post.
Amen brotha.