I wrote this little statement a few nights ago and it has really helped me to understand Sexual Framing as a paradigm shift...
Cause and Effect relationships reveal underlying principles - leading to Aha! moments. However, these cause and effect relationships are not witnessed until a shift in beliefs takes place.
This statement has become a kind of Sexual Framing Preamble for me.
Sexual Framing works.
It may uncover behaviors in females and help us to communicate male-female dynamics. These communications are along the lines of the rules,sexual agreements, negotiations, and the idea that we teach people how to treat us.
The effects of these communications can be seen in the behavioral changes in the girls. It should not suprise us to see these changes in ourselves occuring simultaneously.
A simple formula for this can be expressed:
[Frame] ----Agreement-----> [Behavioral Change]
Another key to this change is agreement or acceptance. Agreement is needed for the shift to occur.
That is basically the cause and effect formula for sexual framing. By looking for the effect - the behavioral shift, we will see that it works and then glimpse the truth...girls like us and want sex.
It is just a matter of orienting our communication towards them in a way that allows them to express themselves sexually.
