Dropping Hints and real one on ones

Open PUA discussion

Dropping Hints and real one on ones

Postby Tribulus1000 » Wed Sep 16, 2009 12:39 pm

I've had a few interactions lately where I either catch the girl looking at me out of the corner of my eye and/or she starts dropping hints.

"Dropping hints" is not a game term, its more of a real world old school jargon.

Examples of someone dropping hints is what I heard last night from a girl who was at a bar with her boyfriend. I think at some point I said "Wow...you're trouble." (This is bait...its just throwing spagetti at a wall to see what sticks.)

Well she drops a hint "I'm probably going to be getting into more trouble soon."

You have to also hear the tonality and the facial expression but this girl was basically agreeing that we should get together at least.

The only problem was the BF kept going away and coming back...so I dropped it.

Another lady at the mall that I approached (maybe 40's) who was kinda hot. Well she had brought up her ex- in the conversation before we had talked about anything related to male-female relationships.
This was her way of dropping a hint. In her mind, she linked men interested in her to a relationship with her ex- and thus brought it up.

Dropping hints has an element of free association to it. I guess you could call this an IOI. It does fit the definition.

Being with girls in these situations is awesome. Its a one on one. An analogy is hand-to-hand combat vs. using guns, planes, tanks and machine guns.
In this case, the girl is close in as opposed to being one of many in a club or bar. You're basically isolated.

Personally, I think this may be the easiest form of "game" there is. Any situation where you are isolated and you can feel she is interested is much easier than dealing with all the obstacles.

Hope this makes sense and someone can comment if you have seen this sort of thing.
Why should I listen to you when you don't even get laid?
Tribulus1000
PUA
 
Posts: 670
Joined: Tue Jan 10, 2006 1:47 pm
Location: You cannot find me.

Postby Scoundrel » Wed Sep 16, 2009 5:08 pm

I have seen this. I'd just never thought about it before. It's like when a girl says she'll be at a place on a given night at a certain time. She's giving you everything you need to see her again.

Good post.

BTW My phone crashed and I lost all my numbers. give me a call or send me a text with your name in it.
"Tell a woman she can't join your club and she'll do almost anything to get in."

Gracho Marx

http://scoundrellife.blogspot.com
User avatar
Scoundrel
PUA
 
Posts: 899
Joined: Sat Jul 29, 2006 10:23 pm
Location: Westworth Village (Ft. Worth)

Postby jwars » Thu Sep 17, 2009 1:16 am

I see this too but sometimes am confused on how to proceed.

How do you usually proceed after she "drops a hint"? For example, would you consider it equal to 2 IOIs and proceed as such?

Curious...
jwars
AFC
 
Posts: 11
Joined: Wed Aug 26, 2009 6:57 pm

Postby Tribulus1000 » Thu Sep 17, 2009 9:12 pm

jwars wrote:I see this too but sometimes am confused on how to proceed.

How do you usually proceed after she "drops a hint"? For example, would you consider it equal to 2 IOIs and proceed as such?

Curious...


Well, see how far you can take it. If let's say you tease her and say "You're trouble" and she ratifies it and says "Yep I'm trouble..." "I live around the corner from here off Main Street and Collins...."
Say "Well do you have any alcohol at your place?" or "Are there any good movies at your house?"
"Wow! Main and Collins, I know where that is. Nice location. Can you show me?"

This sounds like balls O Steel to say but you could try and baby step it by moving her...."Cool...promise to tell me all about it.....let's go over here."
Why should I listen to you when you don't even get laid?
Tribulus1000
PUA
 
Posts: 670
Joined: Tue Jan 10, 2006 1:47 pm
Location: You cannot find me.


Return to General Discussion

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 5 guests

phpJobScheduler