Cold approaching girls in line if ur VIP. Need some opinions

[isosceles cheese]

I dont know WHY i didnt think grabbing some girls from another bar. I'm an idiot. I'll try that and see how it works out.

And thanks for all the tips guys. makes a lot of sense. I'm learning!

Well, at least I have some theory down, its the execution where I fail...lol.

[DateDemon]

VIP can mean different things. Do you have VIP in 1. you get in without waiting 2. You have a VIP table or area? 3. You get free or have prepaid drinks or a combination of those?? it sounds like you have 1. but not the others.

if its a 1 then yea you should probably find girls before you go. Picking up girls in line is a bit shaky especially because if you pull the Blue idea and ask the girls to just go up with you and wing it they might not want to get out of line and risk losing their spot depending on the length of the line. Also you saying your VIP to everyone on the way in just seems desperate.

If its 1 and 2 or 3 even then you have a much better angle. It's not really having VIP at clubs that is great. Usually having the DHV that comes with VIP status is what is great. If you meet girls on the dance floor play up the VIP angle. If you start a convo with a girl just be like hang on I've gotta go to the VIP area real quick. Or be like hey I get free drinks because of VIP I am going to go grab one real quick.

I don't know why you would want a VIP hook up the same night your frats having a party though. Usually frat parties are easy to clean up girls at if you have game.

[Zephyr]

As far as the VIP status. I get side door access and I'm not completely sure if I get VIP access to the third floor lounge but I'm guessing so. I think it all depends on who I show up with. I jmet a guy in dallas who has been into the PUA thing for a while and he told me to come to his party. Gave me his name, number, and the name of the bar. I dont want to miss an opportunity to meet some people with solid game cuz i'm much more interested in getting this part of my life straightened out than seeing instant results with drunk freshman girls.

Also, I have a problem with my game here on campus. I don't know what it is. For me, a change of scenery really helps. Last weekend I went to a party at UNT and got 2 number closes and a day 2 at a coffee shop in dallas. I rarely every get number closes here at UTA. We're a pretty tight community here and we all pretty much know each other. I'm stuck in the friends zone with a lot of girls because I dated a girl for 4 years thats pretty good friends with most of the ones that come to our parties. I've even asked a few of my friends what the deal is and they said its just weird cuz i dated Ashley for so long. Anyone have any tips on THAT lol?

[hooks]

Also, I have a problem with my game here on campus. I don't know what it is. For me, a change of scenery really helps. Last weekend I went to a party at UNT and got 2 number closes and a day 2 at a coffee shop in dallas. I rarely every get number closes here at UTA. We're a pretty tight community here and we all pretty much know each other. I'm stuck in the friends zone with a lot of girls because I dated a girl for 4 years thats pretty good friends with most of the ones that come to our parties. I've even asked a few of my friends what the deal is and they said its just weird cuz i dated Ashley for so long. Anyone have any tips on THAT lol?

I think this is all in your head. Girls will frequently hook up with guys that dated their best friends. You know this as well as I do and I doubt she is even very close friends with most of these chicks. Friendly is more like it. In small towns people frequently fuck people that fucked their friends. ITS NORMAL.

I think once you accept this and do away with that limiting belief you will have more success. That is my opinion anyway.

[Kit]

I think once you accept this and do away with that limiting belief you will have more success. That is my opinion anyway.

Hate to admit it but there is truth to that.

By the way, I HAVE to know how this turned out.