Framing

[Finesse]

I want to get ya'lls opinions on this.

What frames do you guys actively think about setting with your sets?

What frames do you constantly want to set?

Which frames are more beneficial to the interactions?

[zine]

well I see a girl I like it's-
girl, hot girl, get hot girl

push pull is extremely effective. I'm not sure I fully consciously think about it, but I do make a concious effort to do it.

One thing I was discussing with a guy earlier that I like to do is to precondition girls to do things to please me. Example:
A girl gives me something. I love it when people give me things, so I reward her. "Wow you are very generous I love it when you do nice things for me." This preconditions her to feel good when she gives me stuff, and each time she gives me stuff/does stuff for me I concrete this reward by reiterating it because of this sort of frame I was probably one of few guys who actually made money on valentines day instead of lost it.
you can precondition many other things in this sort of way too, just give it a try and you will begin to see the power in it.

Other frames I focus on: coming from a mindset of genuineness and not coolness. As coolness can be easily faked therefore doesn't hold as much value as genuiness which is very hard to fake. Alot of guys frame is I am the coolest person ever/whatever, but by doing this they are still playing into a girls frame, they are still trying to be something maybe even something outside of themselves in order to impress her and win over her affections. When instead being genuinetrying to make it look as if you have no faults is unneccessary and would actually be disgenuine. You are showing people that yes, you do have faults and shit wrong, but that you are comfortable with even these things. That is true coolness.