Increasing your closing potential the Bruce lee method to PU

[AFC AdamLondon]

Heya guys,

I've spent alot of time refining my game over the last few months, and revisiting old concepts and techniques.

AS some of you know i've been building my social circle from scratch. I have some cool new friends, from all over the world, some of whom are really influential, some are just cool, and a few are annoying. Either way it's been a great ride and one I'm hoping to continue as things go forward.

I wanted to share a little idea I've had in my head or a while, not necessarily something completley new rather a concept I've finally managed to visualise in my head.

Alot of peopl try to impose a certain style of game upon themselves and upon the girls they meet.

I.e. they will only use direct game, or they want to perfect the art of approaching without approaching, or social proof, or the perfect routine stack.

Now while I understand the benefit of working on a specific aspect of game, I don't think it's necessarily the best way to progress your game on the whole.

The problem is that the girls we meet and interact with are not one and the same. Far from it they each have varying attitudes, tastes, and experiences. In short they are likely to respond better to different approaches.

A great case in point is the marriage opener I used to use.

We must have opened about 200 sets over the period of a few days with almost every single one hooking. Until the final set. I remember opening her in front of the trocadero.

AFC Adam: OMG OMG WE have to take our relationship to the next level, will you marry me?
HB: ... ... ... *cries*
AFC Adam: Sorry, hello, are you ok?
HB's Friend: Sorry it's not your fault, you couldn't know, she got handed divorce papers today.

Yup..

you see sometimes it doesn't matter how prepared you are, when you're trying to force a situation it won't always work.

Kind of like trying to fit a square block into a round hole. You could try and force it, but there is a better way.

What you are looking to do is to develop a sense of attractiveness. What i mean by this is instead of trying to achieve a set of routines, or specific way to game, you are trying to create a situation where you are actually attractive, though we're not talking about physical looks entirely, (though it does form a part) What we mean is developing an all round attractive package.

This encompasses a mixture of different qualities.

Physical Appearance (Health and cleanliness specifically)
Social Circle (a healthy group of friends which stops you becoming dependent on a girl)
Ambition (Distinct personal goals, that won't involve resting on a girl)
Independent fulfillment (Not being outcome dependent and not looking for approval in others for your actions and achievements)
Qualification (Showing interest in people you meet and being confident enough to disagree based on subject matter or action over physical appearance)

Working towards these qualities will ensure you take an active step towards becoming attractive over just running a form of game to translate these qualities.

As Bruce Lee would say, the perfect way to move in any given situation is to be free flowing as water. By adopting the optimum attractivness that you can achieve you will be able to shift your game based on the set you're dealing with, rather than trying to force the outcome to develop in a way that fits to the specific style of game or routine set you are trying to stick with.

Now naturally when you first start game, it makes more sense to get the basics of a specific down first. Also if you're looking to develop a specific skill set then you may wish to stick to that one entirely. However, I think it would pay to bare in mind the overal goal is not to game our ideal partner but for her to want to be with us for who we are entirely.

AFC Adam

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So I have to admit its a little much to type this stuff up but, I forgot so much info if I dont translate it quickly. I vision in my mind start to fade then I forget the whole catch completly. After a while if I didn't apply it quickly and make it concrete in my mind I loose it forever.

These were a few of the really interesting things I heard tonight and it all really helped alot. I've been stuck in scripting for months now it seems and felt like I had no direction. No reason to game other than desire to stack scripts and make sure I had my new line ready. I still feel my script memorizing and development is important as well but there seems to be so much more to this game. I started learning the game to attract woman but have found there are so many more benifits such as personal self development. Confidence, Goals, Vision!! I have always been VERY career driven. My career has been my GAME for almost 8 years now and not until recently I started a new career. HAHA In Gaming that is. I always thought in my mind that if I talked about or stayed on the topic of my goals and career interests in the future then it was ME QUALIFYING MYSELF TO HER!! But there is a way to get around that and I think I can see that now. Anyway, I got alot out of tonight and here is my notes.

Any thoughts?!?! Did I over look something you saw as being really important tonight? If I butchered something I apologize ahead of time.






USE THE DIAGRAM ABOVE TO UNDERSTAND ADAM”S THEORY OF SOCIAL PROOF!! (I drew the people and arrows to help me visualize.)

OPEN UP EVERY SET ALL OVER THE DAMN BAR OR PARTY. Instead of just approaching my target set in the 3 second rule. I’ll approach all sets for about 2 minutes each. Bounce around like a social butterfly and get SOCIAL PROOF!! THEN, once you arrive at your target set through in neg in. “Hey did you drop something??!! Point to the ground. ”O never mind must have been nothing” Then as an OPINION OPENER!! MAKE SURE I AM INTERESTED IN THE SUBJECT!! So ask, hey I just moved to Dallas and I’m still trying to figure out if I like it here or not. What do you think do you like it here?? or, use the josh opener and ask there opinion about the 12 monkeys script.


BE YOURSELF!! BE LIKE WATER!! INSTEAD OF BEING A SQUARE WOODEN BLOCK TRYING TO GO THROUGH A CIRCLE HOLE. It wont fit!! So by strickly using the mystery method wooden clock, or the Anthony Orlando Cube. They wont always work if I’m using it on a cicle. INSTEAD!!!! BE LIKE WATER!! BE YOURSELF!! MOLD, ADAPT!! FLOW FROM SITUATION TO SITUATION!! THERE IS NO PERFECT FORMULA TO THIS!!

“Give me the definition of VALUE?” Its a difficult word to define is it?? Value is something we all place on things to give that object or PERSON a ranking it order of that persons mind. Use this as a perfect example of value:

Say you work hard for years!! Staying late at work, all the extra weekends and endless nights. Literally slaving away to get your dream car. Its a porsche carrera gt. You finally earn enough to buy this car. You drive it home and 2 days later you win a contest you entered months prior and its the exact same car!! A porsche carrera gt. Same color, make, model and even stiching. Obviously, you wont want to keep them both so which one do you sell??

Almost every person ALWAYS says they would sell the one they won!!

We all place values on things in our own minds. The car I earned has more VALUE to me therefore I want it more.

NEVER THINK ABOUT SEX DURING A SET. Your mind must be clear and free to express its self without hyper vinilation all over the poor girl.

Passing LMR: Last Minute Resistance - If you have to walk down a dark alley to get him with a girl and you know it will freak her out tell her: (In The car on the way over) “So I have this really scary alley by my apartment and it looks like an alley in the movies where someone gets stabbeed and the horrible scene. But dont worrys I havent dont that in a few days. Or if she worried about appearing as a slut. Just tell her, ”hey lets just crash at my place you take my bed and I’ll crash on the couch. Then we can go grab homeade breakfast in the morning!!. Then once at the house beging to play games and kiss on her arrousing her sexualy. Raise her peak sexual desire by kissing and her slowly. Then stop and say I cant do this I never sleep with a girl the first time I go out with them. (Cat string theory here)This will give you VALUE and make them work for you.

At this point they are now qualifying YOU!! This is where you want them trying to earn or work for you attention. REMEMBER, If you have to WORK for something and you feel you EARNED it, Then it has much more VALUE!!