The Mundane Routines

[Westfall]

Penis.

My point exactly.

[Finesse]

How do you keep that up all night?

Viagra

[Finesse]

I like to small talk at the very beginning of a set. I've learned It's best to keep it neutral at the beginning because both people even though it sounds like they aren't saying much are saying a shitload on a nonverbal level. You are calibrating your bodies to sync better with each other. I also believe that by being too much higher energy than her you are performing. It's afc because does she deserve this energy? Nah probably not. Make her earn even your energy because it is a form of interest.
Now I know if some guys read that theyd say oh then you are always boring how does that work??! No I'm not always boring on an open it's all about calibration and being aware of what's going on in the moment.

I tend to favor this approach, only because, I'm not a boring person, so most of my stories are intresting or thought provoking. However, the mundane theory could be good for managing expectations.

I do agree about personal stories that get her to emote though. You only need a little attraction before you move to start establishing comfort. One of the things I think people miss out on is that comfort is a perpetual state that needs to be built upon, not something that comes directly after a3.

[Vector]

Much more important than energy level is whether you're having a good time. Different people express happy contentment in different ways. Some are naturally energetic and talk a lot, and others are low-key and chill.

[Being mundane] goes against everything the community teaches about energy.

It does go against what Mystery does and teaches, but others are much less focused on energy level.

I would say the rule is that nobody wants to associate with someone who is not having a good time, because that person will bring them down. Different experts package this fact in different ways. For Mystery, whether you're having a good time or not is expressed through energy level.

I agree that high energy is not required. I would perhaps shift the emphasis though. Instead of deliberately trying to be boring, just try to be relaxed.

[Fuzz]

Also, that particular story is not "boring". In addition to the subtle attraction spikes spread out within it, it's just an interesting story, and interesting stories make you look like an interesting person (DHV). I guess it also depends on how you tell the story, too.

[Tribulus1000]

Also, that particular story is not "boring". In addition to the subtle attraction spikes spread out within it, it's just an interesting story, and interesting stories make you look like an interesting person (DHV). I guess it also depends on how you tell the story, too.

Thanks Fuzz.