Dallas PUA

*waves to the board*

Best wishes to everyone.

Welcome aboard Valkyriessong.

Just curious... how did you hear about this community?

Via MySpace. I find the whole PUA phenomenon rather fascinating.

I used to be against all this until I started studying it and found out PUAs don't mean to use it for harm. In the beginning I thought it would be used destructively. I don't think that now of course but when I first heard about it I did. You know...the stereotype of the unethical, manipulative, no conscience, slimy, sleezy, socio-path.

I don't believe that anymore.

I guess I have a soft spot in my heart for you guys now. If attracting women leads to greater love and less hate in the world I'm all for it.

Besides...I'm a native Dallas-ite and it's where I live. When I found out there's a Dallas PUA lair I knew I had to sign up.

One other thing I wanted to mention. This seems like a good place to do it.

I had a guy use the Palm reading tactic on me. This was several years ago so I didn't know it was a seduction technique until a few months ago.

I know Fastseduction.com says it's a great excuse to start getting a woman feeling attracted to you. Thing is...with me it didn't work. It had the exact opposite effect. Where before I'd been curious and interested in him the Palm reading trick immediately gave me an "EEEWWWW" gut reaction.

Looking back I think I know why now.

He was stroking the palm of my hand lightly but in a subtly sensual manner. And that was the key. Sensual..sexual. The very thing Fastseduction.com says you should do.

But in my case I found it highly offensive. I didn't know this guy very well and already he's making sensual, suggestive moves on my body - even if it's something as simple as my hand. I didn't like it. My gut was screaming, "EEEEWWW, Run like hell!" I don't like anyone I've only known a few hours being that sensuous that fast.

That one move crossed him off my list. When he got up to go talk to a friend I used that opportunity to escape and left the club.

Perhaps it's a quirk of my personality. All I know is my gut was telling me to run away - fast.

Not surprising. It sounds creepy. You don't need much attraction and comfort to do that but if there wasn't any to start with, it would set off alarms. (AMOGing complete). So, who do you think lies more, men or women?

deucex wrote:So, who do you think lies more, men or women?

I'm not sure. I've never tried to pick up chicks

P.S. Tell Mad Dash and Mystery I said "Hi".

Valkyriessong wrote: I had a guy use the Palm reading tactic on me. This was several years ago so I didn't know it was a seduction technique until a few months ago.

I know Fastseduction.com says it's a great excuse to start getting a woman feeling attracted to you. Thing is...with me it didn't work. It had the exact opposite effect. Where before I'd been curious and interested in him the Palm reading trick immediately gave me an "EEEWWWW" gut reaction.

Looking back I think I know why now.

He was stroking the palm of my hand lightly but in a subtly sensual manner. And that was the key. Sensual..sexual. The very thing Fastseduction.com says you should do.

But in my case I found it highly offensive. I didn't know this guy very well and already he's making sensual, suggestive moves on my body - even if it's something as simple as my hand. I didn't like it. My gut was screaming, "EEEEWWW, Run like hell!" I don't like anyone I've only known a few hours being that sensuous that fast.

That one move crossed him off my list. When he got up to go talk to a friend I used that opportunity to escape and left the club.

Perhaps it's a quirk of my personality. All I know is my gut was telling me to run away - fast.

I have heard other girls saying palm reading creeped them out. This does not mean palm reading is a bad thing. It just needs to be done right. It is great kino as it allows touch allowing her to feel more comfortable with your touch. When it is done in a sensual manner as to indicate sexual interest, it can have the opposite affect.

While sarging with a mPUA he initiated touchy feely kino to fast and creeped out the girl. The girl in turn told me she did not like it and demostrated what he did on me. I then told her to stop casue she was creeping me out. Made her and her friends laughed and at that point I had them hooked... though I digress! Be careful with the kino!

I am Juju. just got out of a really long LTR and trying to get back into the game. Am ok with in a social circle, but not so much with strangers.

I've already met a few of u including Vector at the Sarge last weekend. It was an interesting event and the first step in a long road ahead.

your intro is very simple and to the point, I like that. Now I'm intrigued in talking to you because of your damn simplicity :p, so what are you going to provide to the people here and what do you expect to get out of it?