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[ghost]

Hey guys, Ghost here. Deuce and I held the workshop at Project Austin last weekend and I was blown away by how cool the Dallas guys were so I thought I'd come sign up and get involved any way I could with my northern neighbors. I definitely want to come to Dallas soon and meet some ladies and meet as many of you as I can.

Not sure if you guys have considered this but we have the opportunity to put Texas on the map for pickup. The big boys have the coasts covered but as you know Texas has some of the hottest women period. Deuce and I have done a lot for the Austin community and I would love to see others with a drive to make this region a thriving scene of positive thinking guys with a passion for incredible women.

Pickup is changing my friends. For example, at the workshop this weekend I tried a standard opener for the hell of it and I got blown out with the following.

Me: "Hey ladies let me ask you your opinion on something.."
Her: "Ive read the book, fuck off"

HAHAHA! It was awesome. It proves my point however. This skillset must move beyond the tried and true into new waters, something I honestly believe we are doing in Austin.

Think about this, what is the ideal night for you when you open sets? The answer of course is one set, one girl and quick escalation. Change your views of pickup from "I have to open 10 sets tonight" to "I have to build a genuine connection within 3 sets" or something that gets you moving toward real success rather than useless social theatrics.

Also realize that this skillset is so much more than the bar scene. I see that as a tiny fraction of it actually so get the most aerial view you can. This will accomplish a couple things. One, it will relieve the rediculous pressure that you might place on yourself when you go out. "If I dont do well here, Im a failure etc" Go out to have fun and youll find your success will skyrocket. Two, youll start to see opportunity everywhere. And if you can have marginal success in the facade that is the bar scene, you will kick serious ass in the real world. The same game ran to the same woman can be super effective in the real world yet fall flat in the bars.

Of course go to the bars because they are where you will polish the skillset quickly. Thats the most difficult arena so understand you are in the thunderdome and give yourself props for getting out there. Everyone else is there with their friends only. You are the pioneer merging social circles, sparking attraction in total strangers etc. Be proud of yourself.

I have been telling a few women what I do and strangely enough they find it intriguing every single time. Some have persued me harder because of it. Women want this guys. They want you to have the skills to make them feel fantastic. Go forward with the knowledge that you are both on the same side and its a shared experience, not some shady conquest or social lab experiment. Women are dying to meet interesting guys and its a rarity for them. Be that guy.

bruce aka ghost