Hi Everyone
Posted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 8:39 pm
I just moved into the Dallas area to go to school at UTA, I'm 22 working towards a masters. At the beginning of 2006, I weighed in at 240lbs (I'm 5'10), by the end of 2006 I was 185. Over the last couple of months, girls started to notice me. Before I thought I stood no chance with women due to my weight, but then as soon as I started getting checked out it hit me that girls were interested in me and that I knew nothing about what to say or do around women.
I was brought up in a very conservative family from south India where the norm is to go and get an arranged marriage, and even talking to girls is frowned upon. So I grew up with zero social skills around women, and approach anxiet bordering on the fear of death. I've only been on 3 dates in my life.
I recently purchased the book Art of Approaching and am starting to do the bootcamp in there (which consists of doing about 20 approaches a week). I tend to do okay after the approach, but I am struggling to pull dates and numbers. I hope to learn more from everyone here and share my experiences step by step here.
I was brought up in a very conservative family from south India where the norm is to go and get an arranged marriage, and even talking to girls is frowned upon. So I grew up with zero social skills around women, and approach anxiet bordering on the fear of death. I've only been on 3 dates in my life.
I recently purchased the book Art of Approaching and am starting to do the bootcamp in there (which consists of doing about 20 approaches a week). I tend to do okay after the approach, but I am struggling to pull dates and numbers. I hope to learn more from everyone here and share my experiences step by step here.