by TxSurfer » Sun Jan 07, 2007 10:19 pm
I was bored and lonely. I was totally frustrated with my life. Something had to change and change soon. I worked way too much. I had no girlfriend. My social life existed through XBOX Live. I had posted a profile on Match.com and got no results other than spam from hookers wanting to sell me their services. A friend from work told me about a book called The Game written by Neil Strauss. This book changed my life. I looked up Mystery and Style on the Internet. I bought Venusian Arts by Mystery. Before I could start to read it, I found a project by Style called the Style Life Challenge. I quickly signed up and did every daily assignment. I posted my results and made new friends, on the Internet and in person here in Dallas, Texas. I was soon getting on the VIP lists at hot clubs and venues across town from Ghost Bar, Obar, Wish and other Dallas clubs. I started to get invited to parties and social events such as the Margarita Ball. I was starting to date several women that were of high quality, good looks, elegance and intelligence. Among them was a doctor, a lawyer, a police woman and several other professions of higher status. One other thing, I thought all of them were hot and previously would be out of my league. Not anymore. I was their prize. A smile comes across my face as I think of them. I have currently have a primary relationship with one of these women and have let the others go to concentrate on her. She has become really special to me as we have a lot in common and we get along great.
After I sit here and contemplate what happened, I have to think what has changed in my life. First, I got new clothes. This did not come cheap either. I found a professional shopper and made friends with several clerks at the hottest stores in Dallas. Next, I got a new haircut. This was a big departure for my normal cut that I’ve had for over a decade. I even got highlights. I went out and bought a black 2007 Mustang GT Convertible. I started going to a psychologist that help me with my issues of self- confidence. I took a few workshops and went sarging with several local PUAs, and AFCs. I made friends with a few naturals who had my back when I got blown out. I also read volumes of posts, books and other publications. I watched countless hours of videos. I don’t want to say that I went out sarging to practice but I went out sarging to experiment with my techniques that I learned. Gunwich, Mystery, BadBoy, Style, Ross Jeffries, Thundercat, Tyler Durden, and others were sources of ideas and inspiration.
The first key to my success was fixing my inner game….