Greetings from Zero
Posted: Fri May 21, 2010 10:21 pmHello, this is my first actual foray into the community. Let me introduce myself.
I am a 24 year old military officer. I am currently coming out of college, in addition to a year and a half long relationship. Trying to get back in the game has been a bit difficult: While I've gotten more confidence and better mannerisms than before, I don't really know how to build attraction in order to get a close. I'm going to be open and outline my goals. I adhere to a fairly religous background, so I am not looking to increase my "lay count" or be able to seduce 9's and 10's.
My goals are twofold. First, I want to be able to choose relationships on my terms and to increasing the quantity and quality of women that I can date. I want to be able to choose the smartest, prettiest, and most dependable women to be my girlfriends. Nor do I wish to suffer through a bad relationship because of being fearful that I will have a hard time finding another.
Secondly, I want to improve my overall social skills and confidence. Since my profession is one of "leadership"(and supervisor ratings control your advancement), I can say that getting involved in the community will benefit my work and be telling the truth.
Unfortunately, my time with the Dallas group will be temporary. I am moving next week to Lawton, Oklahoma for six months of training. During that time, I plan to spend more of my weekends in Dallas due to the high crime and poor social scene in Lawton. So I should be meeting you guys on a regular basis!
I am a 24 year old military officer. I am currently coming out of college, in addition to a year and a half long relationship. Trying to get back in the game has been a bit difficult: While I've gotten more confidence and better mannerisms than before, I don't really know how to build attraction in order to get a close. I'm going to be open and outline my goals. I adhere to a fairly religous background, so I am not looking to increase my "lay count" or be able to seduce 9's and 10's.
My goals are twofold. First, I want to be able to choose relationships on my terms and to increasing the quantity and quality of women that I can date. I want to be able to choose the smartest, prettiest, and most dependable women to be my girlfriends. Nor do I wish to suffer through a bad relationship because of being fearful that I will have a hard time finding another.
Secondly, I want to improve my overall social skills and confidence. Since my profession is one of "leadership"(and supervisor ratings control your advancement), I can say that getting involved in the community will benefit my work and be telling the truth.
Unfortunately, my time with the Dallas group will be temporary. I am moving next week to Lawton, Oklahoma for six months of training. During that time, I plan to spend more of my weekends in Dallas due to the high crime and poor social scene in Lawton. So I should be meeting you guys on a regular basis!