Dallas PUA

I'm a 27-year old punkass who really sucks with chicks...lol. I've had a little success using PUA tools (nothing canned), but really looking to feel like I have options with women, aside from clinging to whatever shows up. I just stumbled onto this place, looking for some examples of how to run game. Right now I'm just considering HB6 or 7's until I can inspire a little more confidence. I should also note that I have a really fucked up mentality where I don't really care how hot the chick is if she's basically attractive "enough". I'm one of those "personality" losers, who pretty much wants chicks to hang out with, rather than rail a bunch of different women frequently. Maybe that will change when I perceive that I have options...which would be nice considering I'm all bummed over a girl currently.

I travel a lot for work, so sometimes I'm gone for 6-months straight, which I'll hopefully learn to enjoy as I hone my skills. I don't really want to get into the PUA stuff as a hobby, I just want it to be a tool that I can use so I can enjoy choices in women, not whatever shows up once per year.

I lift Sunday, Tuesday-Thursday, so I only get up on the weekends.

Thanks for all the advice and discussion I'm reading through here.

I'm a newb here, and nobody knows me, but I'm feeling more inspired than ever before. I'm just going to talk now, to you total strangers, because this is like therapy for me at this point, because I MOTHER FUCKING MUST make this change in my life now!!!!!!!!!!!!


I've fucked up with women for a long time, and luckily my favorable looks and cool personality has instantly taken me to intense relationships via women who hit on me, because I'm afraid of women.

Well, I went to napa with a chick who was really, really cool, but but burned me off pretty bad by ignoring me. Its hit me hard for a month, and I've wanted a chick who although she was cool, I think I can "do better" on the physical level, and hopefully it will transition into a girl with a cool personality.

I've had a bunch of her wine at my house (96 points and better) from the trip. I warned her a month ago that I'd drink it if she didn't come get it. Well, I found out tonight that she blew me off for another dude, it pissed me off, so I cracked 2 bottles. It was liberating. Fuck me, for all the shit I've put myself through by some self-created mechanism where I've felt no options with women, and grabbed onto every one that was dumb enough to speak to me. I don't want 10's, i want a woman who's cool, with a personality as fucked up as mine. They're out there, statistics dictate this constant.

Well now, things must change, or my life is going to be just as fucking miserable as its been since I was 10 years old. I have to make myself go out on friday and saturday and talk to women. Sure, I may annoy them and I may fail miserably, but rather than get upset this time because women blew me off, i'll celebrate because I tried. Sure, I've tried before, but I've never tried with more than one girl per night...well more like one girl every six months. I've always gone home sad, like a bitch. So I'm going to start small this weekend, I'm going to open on 2 sets, fuck, maybe even a 2 set, which I've never done before.

Talking and whining to my very few friends is just as useless as its always been. I have to change. My skills aren't honed, my game is probably pathetic, btu for the first time in my life, I'm going to try. At some point frustration must overcome fear, or its going to be just like this, every time, for the rest of my life. I'm tired of being the guy who always shows up to hang out with my buddy and his girl. I absolutely must do this.

I hope this carries over to the weekend. I will come back to this thread friday night, before I go out, read this, and rationalize the only answer to my frustration and pain. Doing nothing will not work anymore. I can learn it when I'm 27, 50, or never. I'm going to learn it now and choose, rather than wait to be chosen. I'm tired of being the fat kid on the playground. I will learn to be the badass motherfucker my friends say I am.

/faggot rant

Well I like your name....

It's a little obtuse, b ut....

/end bad jokes

WF

Westfall wrote:Well I like your name....

It's a little obtuse, b ut....

/end bad jokes

WF

I don't want to get off on a tangent, but you're right.

lol

I like your attitude and you're only lucky son of a bitch. Why do I say that? I'm fucking 40 years old. I wasted years of my life getting cheated on and heart broken because nobody ever opened my eyes. I always tried to do what I believe was honorable and of integrity. I still have those core values but what I realize now is that we also have to have survival skills.

Fuck women until they give us a reason not to - Kit

Hey, I like that quote and as far as I know I just made it up. It kind of fits what Mystery says and it's a double play on words. He says make a woman earn the right to be with us. In my own words lets literally fuck them and figuratively say "fuck them" until they prove they are worthy of our devotion and earn, and I mean fucking earn, our respect and trust.

So what I am saying is you're learning something very important about relationships and women early in life where I'm learning almost too late. Be thankful for that.

I would have never opened her wine but that's the (in the words of Jackass Westfall) "fuktard" in me. I wish I was strong enough to open the wine. It would be liberating so I congratulate you!

I highly recommend fucking (with condoms) any ugly girl you can, but after you practice PUA techniques on her and work on your game. You could probably fuck her anyway but make it fun for you both as she will enjoy the playful attention.

Why? Because if you're like me it will get old and you'll realize that an ugly girl won't satisfy you, then you will feel you're better than that and step up your game to go for the prettier ones. It may only take one ugly girl for you to get sick of it, but then you'll focus on hotter babes.

I agree that looks are not everything when you get ready for a serious relationship, but you will be a better person for her, more confident and exciting, if you fuck a few hot babes first

I think you and I should meet. I believe I can really help you. I have the wisdom and experience that come with age and I'm picking up this PUA shit really fast. I also am humble enough to know I can learn from you too and I value any time another person spends with me.

I'll shoot you my email.

Kit