Different - I suspect
Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 11:52 amHello Guys,
I'm believe I'm older than most (40), and with that comes a few plusses and minuses that don't seem to be as relevant to many in the community. Plusses: Pretty masssive success in career, wealth building, social heirarchy; exceptional degree of self-knowledge and a deep, real sense of self-esteem; many, many interesting experiences to relate and pyramid off of. Minusses: Divorced w/ 3 kids under 7; professional and social reputation that I have to be somewhat mindful of; massive alcoholism earlier in life (don't drink now) that has historically affected my perceptions/actions when picking up women (wanna take a hard look at this again).
Got married at 31 after dating woman exclusively for 1 year, so out of the pick-up scene for 10 years. Moderately successful early in life - I recall numbers in the low 40s. Much, much higher total almost getting laid, but I was more into self-destruction and drinking then so I kept getting side-tracked. Divorce not final yet, only separated about 3 months. Pulled an AFC move about 30 days ago while I was still wounded from the marriage and break-up that pissed me off so I decided not to let that happen again.
I'm looking for guys on-line that can be a sounding board to help me more quickly get my game in shape by giving me feedback on specific interactions I'm having.
I'm also very interested in suggestions on reading material. Very interested in meeting guys with a similar situation on-line. Very interested in figuring out a way to meet: Juggler, DeAngelo, Style & Mystery - I'm sure they would find me and my story (life story, not just women) quite unique and interesting.
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I'm believe I'm older than most (40), and with that comes a few plusses and minuses that don't seem to be as relevant to many in the community. Plusses: Pretty masssive success in career, wealth building, social heirarchy; exceptional degree of self-knowledge and a deep, real sense of self-esteem; many, many interesting experiences to relate and pyramid off of. Minusses: Divorced w/ 3 kids under 7; professional and social reputation that I have to be somewhat mindful of; massive alcoholism earlier in life (don't drink now) that has historically affected my perceptions/actions when picking up women (wanna take a hard look at this again).
Got married at 31 after dating woman exclusively for 1 year, so out of the pick-up scene for 10 years. Moderately successful early in life - I recall numbers in the low 40s. Much, much higher total almost getting laid, but I was more into self-destruction and drinking then so I kept getting side-tracked. Divorce not final yet, only separated about 3 months. Pulled an AFC move about 30 days ago while I was still wounded from the marriage and break-up that pissed me off so I decided not to let that happen again.
I'm looking for guys on-line that can be a sounding board to help me more quickly get my game in shape by giving me feedback on specific interactions I'm having.
I'm also very interested in suggestions on reading material. Very interested in meeting guys with a similar situation on-line. Very interested in figuring out a way to meet: Juggler, DeAngelo, Style & Mystery - I'm sure they would find me and my story (life story, not just women) quite unique and interesting.
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