Papa needs help

[Papa]

Good day gents.

I know Papa was one of the people in "The Game". But that is who I am and I intend to make it my own. It's what my daughter calls me.

Having read the book twice in the last five years, I need to read it again. I've been working on my life the last few years getting it together. Economy and divorce wrecked my life for a while. Now I have the stability to actually up my game. And that's the problem - I have no game. I have approached a couple of women lately and got a phone number. But the follow through sucks. I've always been an AFC and come off as desperate. Always had oneitis and thought that was best for me. Let's prove me wrong and really get into the game.

My main issue is that I am over 50. I'm not tall but not too short (5'8"). I do come off as a quiet gentleman. I desperately need good advice on my appearance and technique. It is quite difficult to self-evaluate.

I had an interesting and very enlightening experience this year. I went out with a dozen co-workers to a karaoke bar. Guys and girls of various ethnicities and ages - all of them in the twenties and thirties. People just started coming up to us and joining our group. One young woman took particular interest in me. However, she was trying to control me. I saw what was going on and did the right thing. Ignored her for some of the games she was playing. Eventually, I just left. I wasn't interested in being her sugar daddy. The experience left me feeling good. I need more of that.

I saw the group app. First thing I will need to do is upgrade my phone before I use it.

Papa