Dallas guy back home after sarging in NYC and LA
Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 3:57 pmHi guys of Dallas Lair!
I am originally from Dallas-Ft. Worth metroplex. However, I have lived in Manhattan and LA for the past 4 years due to graduate school. I will soon be moving back to Dallas for my new job :)
I took a bootcamp one year ago with the ABCs of Attraction and had been serving as an intern for the company under JT Tran. However ABCs does not have as strong a presence as it did before in Dallas. I took a total of 4 months off due to taking the New York legal bar. However I am extremely motivated and dedicated to the craft as I aim to become guru status. Right now I consider myself to be a bit above intermediate level, just a bit.
My strengths:
1. I work out extensively and have absolutely amazing fashion style (I had a love for men's fashion since I was in high school, and even fashionista/model girls in the most exclusive of Manhattan clubs compliment me on my unique style). My fundamentals in terms of passive value are extremely solid (body language, posture, tonality, facial expression, eye contact, etc). I'm a bit short, 5'7, so that's my only dent in passive value.
2. I am solid on direct openers and decent at bantering and comfort and going for the makeout etc. I have no trouble holding my end of the conversation, and had been called out as "smooth", "player", etc, but I realize that those are negative aspects that I must correct rather than basis for pride... please see details below.
Areas for improvement:
1. As mentioned previously, my banter is decent, but nothing too fantastic. I've been told by established gurus in LA that I use my passive value and direct opening as a crutch. So now I vow to improve my situational openers and banter because I've seen how AMAZING some of the gurus are at that aspect after going out in the meatpacking district of New York and the Hollywood strip of LA. I believe that banter is THE KEY to building attraction in girls that otherwise have no attraction to you in the first place.
2. I rely on routine stacks a bit and would love to naturalize my game more, because I find that my routines are so well-honed that some girls are somewhat suspicious of my "schmoozing". Again this is a crutch that's holding me back. And if women can see through my shit, then I am not as good as I want to become.
3. I am sometimes overly dominant infield and certain girls aren't into the aggressiveness, so I hope to swing back a bit and fine tune that area.
Personality wise, I am an extremely easy going and humble guy and believe that I can learn something from everyone, from the relative newbies to the social masters. Furthermore, I watch out for my fellow wingmen and am very good at winging, as long as you are willing to do the same for me. In a nutshell, I am a very nice guy who's down to earth, as long as you return the favor.
I hope to learn from you guys, and in turn I will contribute my part. As much as I loved Manhattan and LA, it feels good to be home (in 2 weeks though)
BHM
I am originally from Dallas-Ft. Worth metroplex. However, I have lived in Manhattan and LA for the past 4 years due to graduate school. I will soon be moving back to Dallas for my new job :)
I took a bootcamp one year ago with the ABCs of Attraction and had been serving as an intern for the company under JT Tran. However ABCs does not have as strong a presence as it did before in Dallas. I took a total of 4 months off due to taking the New York legal bar. However I am extremely motivated and dedicated to the craft as I aim to become guru status. Right now I consider myself to be a bit above intermediate level, just a bit.
My strengths:
1. I work out extensively and have absolutely amazing fashion style (I had a love for men's fashion since I was in high school, and even fashionista/model girls in the most exclusive of Manhattan clubs compliment me on my unique style). My fundamentals in terms of passive value are extremely solid (body language, posture, tonality, facial expression, eye contact, etc). I'm a bit short, 5'7, so that's my only dent in passive value.
2. I am solid on direct openers and decent at bantering and comfort and going for the makeout etc. I have no trouble holding my end of the conversation, and had been called out as "smooth", "player", etc, but I realize that those are negative aspects that I must correct rather than basis for pride... please see details below.
Areas for improvement:
1. As mentioned previously, my banter is decent, but nothing too fantastic. I've been told by established gurus in LA that I use my passive value and direct opening as a crutch. So now I vow to improve my situational openers and banter because I've seen how AMAZING some of the gurus are at that aspect after going out in the meatpacking district of New York and the Hollywood strip of LA. I believe that banter is THE KEY to building attraction in girls that otherwise have no attraction to you in the first place.
2. I rely on routine stacks a bit and would love to naturalize my game more, because I find that my routines are so well-honed that some girls are somewhat suspicious of my "schmoozing". Again this is a crutch that's holding me back. And if women can see through my shit, then I am not as good as I want to become.
3. I am sometimes overly dominant infield and certain girls aren't into the aggressiveness, so I hope to swing back a bit and fine tune that area.
Personality wise, I am an extremely easy going and humble guy and believe that I can learn something from everyone, from the relative newbies to the social masters. Furthermore, I watch out for my fellow wingmen and am very good at winging, as long as you are willing to do the same for me. In a nutshell, I am a very nice guy who's down to earth, as long as you return the favor.
I hope to learn from you guys, and in turn I will contribute my part. As much as I loved Manhattan and LA, it feels good to be home (in 2 weeks though)
BHM