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The same sad story we've all heard befor

PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 2:47 am
by Guest
Hay whats up every body, glad to be apart of the DFW lair. Long story short I discovered pick up about a year ago and I've been running with it ever since, along the way I've had some success's and I've had some failures. I trained and studied hard on developing a strong outer game and it landed me my first girlfriend ever, A firey 19yr old red head with green eye's that i stupidly let steal my heart away. The to of us had a great 4 month long relationship I thought i was in love, but all good things must come to an end, the summer ended she left for college. We tried to do the whole long distance thing but two weeks after i move the bitch to San Marcos she calls me and says she can't do it any more. Ripped my fucking heart out ant through it in the blender, it was truly a learning experience.
Now i'm trying to get back into the field, and get this bitch off my mind. Like i said i have a good outer game(though it takes me a bit to get comfortable when meeting mew people) but i'm only just now getting to work on developing my much needed inner game. My biggest sticking point is that the act of meeting new people for some reason seems like some crazy impossibly daunting task, I'm great when people introduce me to there friends and whatever, but when it comes to meeting people when i'm out and about i fucking bomb. I'm hoping that there are a few wise veterans out their who i could sarge with and show the ropes, so don't be shy hit a brother up.

PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 2:00 pm
by Guest
Welcome to the Lair bro. How old are you? Can you go out to bars? If you are dating 19 year olds you are prob quite a bit younger then a lot of us. I'm not a veteran by any means, but I am always down to help people out and tell them about what I have learned so far. There are a lot cool people here come to one of the meetups and check everyone out.

PostPosted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 3:10 pm
by Guest
Ya i can go out to bars i'm 21, just moved out on my own into the real world trying to get my life together you know, just trying to grab all the fun i can and never let the man bring me down. The first meet-up i hear about you'll see me there for sure.

PostPosted: Thu Oct 15, 2009 7:39 pm
by Guest
welcome to the lair.

its been quiet these past few weeks, reason being that the people on this site actually have lives aside from pick-up; less keyboard jockeys than other popular sites..

stick around and it'll get active again....

PostPosted: Thu Oct 15, 2009 8:46 pm
by Guest
Well I would hope that well rounded PUA's would have would have their own live's to live. And be trying to live them to the fullest.

PostPosted: Fri Oct 16, 2009 9:58 am
by Guest
[QUOTE=Prodigy;33376]welcome to the lair.

its been quiet these past few weeks, reason being that the people on this site actually have lives aside from pick-up; less keyboard jockeys than other popular sites..

stick around and it'll get active again....[/QUOTE]

I dunno bro...

I'm quickly turning into a KJ. But, at least I speak from loads of experience.

PostPosted: Tue Oct 20, 2009 9:30 pm
by Guest
[QUOTE=Bull Run;33387]I dunno bro...

I'm quickly turning into a KJ. But, at least I speak from loads of experience.[/QUOTE]

NOT YOU BR! A caged bull is a steer isn't it! Get out there and give the girls the gravy!

PostPosted: Wed Oct 21, 2009 6:24 pm
by Guest
[QUOTE]Hay whats up every body, glad to be apart of the DFW lair. Long story short I discovered pick up about a year ago and I've been running with it ever since, along the way I've had some success's and I've had some failures. I trained and studied hard on developing a strong outer game and it landed me my first girlfriend ever, A firey 19yr old red head with green eye's that i stupidly let steal my heart away. The to of us had a great 4 month long relationship I thought i was in love, but all good things must come to an end, the summer ended she left for college. We tried to do the whole long distance thing but two weeks after i move the bitch to San Marcos she calls me and says she can't do it any more. Ripped my fucking heart out ant through it in the blender, it was truly a learning experience.
Now i'm trying to get back into the field, and get this bitch off my mind. Like i said i have a good outer game(though it takes me a bit to get comfortable when meeting mew people) but i'm only just now getting to work on developing my much needed inner game. My biggest sticking point is that the act of meeting new people for some reason seems like some crazy impossibly daunting task, I'm great when people introduce me to there friends and whatever, but when it comes to meeting people when i'm out and about i fucking bomb. I'm hoping that there are a few wise veterans out their who i could sarge with and show the ropes, so don't be shy hit a brother up.[/QUOTE]

Heh about the exact same thing happened to me about a month ago. Enough to mess any man up for a bit. Just don't let it make you think that women are evil creatures. I'm sure for a moment during your relationship you could clearly see something amazing about that girl that no one else did. If you can capture that moment and begin to see those unique things in all women then you are well on your way to finding many new and great ones. Cheers bro, hope to see you out.

Tyler