Dallas PUA

Well hello community, My name is Ness and I found the PUA community by porn site. I know, I know, but who does not? HA...I'm just glad I visit that site that night...HA.... This is my first time in this kind of PUA stuff and well I hope everything goes well. A little bit about me well, I'm originally from Mexico, I'm 24 years old, 5'10". Not ugly but not brad pitt either. I have been only in one serious relationship with a girl that chose me, which definitely sucks because I did not learn anything on how to be around women. Sex was great, I'll admit it. Anyways, after we broke up, becuase she cheat on me haha, I have not been in any serious relationship for more than 5 years. I know my shit really sucks, but now I'm fucking ready to set this part of my life straight. I have been probably lucky to found sex girlfriends once in a while. But definitely that sucks too because I'm not handling my life by myself. I need to learn how to be around women, I know is not going to be easy for me, but I have to get out of this fucking closet and my comfort zone. I live in the Dallas area. What I'm planning to do this weekend is just go out by myself and start at least saying Hi, Hey, How are you to anyone out there. I need to get comfortable socializing. If anyone can give some advice for a first time guy going in a PUA Path, I will really appreciate.....Anyways thanks for your replies....

Welcome! This board has many useful guys willing to help if youre willing to learn!

Have you read any books?

two books i reccomend that would give you a good place to start and foundation:
The Game by Neil Strauss
The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women into Bed by Mystery

After reading those books, it'll lead you to more and more books/techniques. Please note that alot of the stuff in The Game are overused and old...

You should definitely come out tomorrow for the meet up...

Hey man.
Welcome to the community.
I never knew the community was advertised on porn sites lol.
That's bad ass lol.
Anyways, Prodigy is right.
Everyone here is amazing and I can tell you because I have experienced it firsthand that if you stick with this stuff and consistently work your ass off on it, you will be a better you within 4 months.
I've been in the community for about 4 months now, and over those four months my life has taken a 180(turn around) for the better.
I too would recommend The Game.
The first half of it is some good stuff.
The last half, not so good lol.
I would also recommend The Stylelife Challenge books.
It's two books: one is a 30 day self improvement program to turn you from dateless to a guy that can get a date; the other is a book of Neil Strauss'(Style) stories.
I didn't actually do the 30 day thing, so I cannot tell you if it works.
I did what the book says not to do and picked out bits and peices and applied them to my game.
I am sure it can work for you if you practice and practice hard.
Anyways, I hope to see you in the scene soon man.
The best advice I could give you is meet the guys on the lair.
MEET THE GUYS ON THE LAIR.
It'll be so much easier having a wing.
But eventually you will have to go pick uo chicks solo, which is what I am attempting now.
Good luck man.

p.s. you said something about "coming out of the closet", please do us all a favor and stay in the closet ;)
just messin with ya lol

There is a meet up tonight, try to make it if you can.

You can't gain confidence from reading, but only from doing. Books are a very small part of getting good with women. If you really want to understand them make a few as friends. Girls that you don't really try to have sex with, but just try to learn from. Once you understand and begin to be more comfortable around them it is much easier to find ones you like.

I will post what I did after wars on the field, and see how it goes. But at least I think I'm going to be doing something original, well it is original because everything that I will be doing is related to my actual events on my life. In the beginning just say hey, hi, I don't know whatever, to feel a little comfortable and then go ahead and ask a kind of question or like personal poll that personally I have been wondering about. I'm not giving to much detail right now but definitely, I will post later on, that's for sure. I'm going to be as cool, normal, happy person as I can. In general try this all this out, I mean what could be worse than just get a response like "I have to go" or "I don't have time", I least I'm going to try. Is easy to say, but hard to do. I can feel adrenaline because this is my first time, but if I don't take action right now I will be piss off for the rest of my life.
Yeah sure where is the meet up? Place? and Time?
Nice go about the closet Urban Legend HAHA....Anywasys, Let Me Know about the MEET UP.....

Welcome , we are here to help

that rush is actually pretty amazing in my opinion. I remember when I was first approaching chicks id get all shaky, but dam was I awake. I think the adrenaline high can be more addicting than some drugs. Same reason people jump out of planes and ride on bulls. I hope that rush never goes away. As long as it's there I know I'm challenging myself. I'm pushing myself to my limits. Going out of your comfort zone a little each day will lead to a life abundant in confidence. Our bodies and minds have an amazing ability to adapt to almost any situation if we do it enough.