[QUOTE=Bull Run;33752]No problem man.
Just a few words to the wise coming from someone that's been doing this a long time:
1) PU is just like everything else in life, you get out of it what you put in. Generally speaking, the difference between success and failure or varying levels of ability in PU is YOU. You are solely to blame AND you are solely to congratulate.
2) Don't be afraid to ask questions. You are amongst friends here, and trust me, someone has been in the exact situation or had the same thought process that sparked said question. You've got a great resource here so don't be afraid to use it.
3) Criticism is constructive. Sometimes we might come off as harsh, but it is no one's intention to crush anyone unless, and here is where point 4 comes into play...
4) As you develop your skills, I would advise that you try to remain as humble as possible. Arrogant, experienced PUA's are some of the shittiest people I've ever met. Arrogant noobs are the bottom of the barrel. Generally, arrogance is nothing more than that person's way of trying to appear more confident than they truly are. There is an inverse relationship between someone's arrogance and their internal confidence. The funny thing about arrogance is that women can spot it immediately (and so can we, which is while you'll see some noobs get flamed hardcore if they approach us without any level of humility). PU will become a source of pride for you in your life, I promise. But, just because you know how to seduce a woman doesn't mean that you are somehow better than any one else. The only difference between them and us is generally nothing more than education and effort. If you want to attract high-quality women, then you need to develop a quiet confidence with a sense of humility.
Having said all of that, we're all here to help and grow together. This truly is a brotherhood. But, like most relationships, it takes work for it to blossom.
Glad to have you here bro.[/QUOTE]
On the few points you brought up...WORD. I'll always remember how I started out provided I have the success you guys have. They say that success breeds arrogance but I'm hoping hard-earned competence will bring about internal respect and gratification. I am quite ready to get as much constructive feedback from my peers and experienced artists in this game. And I hope this journey will allow me to mold myself into someone who can pick the high quality women as opposed to settling for what I know I can get. I come to this forum as a sponge, my friends. =)
