Hey guys this is D, i'm 22 years old asian and I just got out of a LTR. Usually stayed in my social circle of friends and got girls through that type of setting, i've never been a real social guy so the whole pick up scene is really new to me, but I think with alot more practice this will work.
I'm really open to suggestions on how to improve myself and especially my inner game, don't hesitate to pull me aside and give me pointers and tell me when i'm doing wrong. I also met a bunch of yall at the hotel party and at madison ave. Really opened my eyes, good times guys and hope to see more!
Dallas PUA
The Pickup Artist Playground
Hey yall
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by Guest » Sun May 10, 2009 11:50 am
Nice meeting you the other night and welcome to the boards, theres alot of useful resources here..
..basically, there are two school of thoughs on inner game.
1. inner game, then outer game. work on your inner game and square away all of your issues then develop an outer game.
2. outer game, then inner game. develop mad outer game with a killer arsenal of openers, gambits, routines, etc etc. the belief is that success breeds success (success will build your confidence)...
i for one, lean towards the first school of thought. i have seen some of the better guys in this community hit inner game roadblocks and their game goes to shit; theyre not motivated and cant pull if their life depended on it.
i suggest you work on both at the same time. when youre out sarging, work on some routines/openers and see what works best for your PU style/ personality. when youre at home reflect and write down what your inner game issues are and how you can deal with it...i say work on inner AND outer game at the same time...
having said that,
inner game is the single MOST important factor in your ability to pick up women. let me repeat that. inner game is the single MOST important factor in your ability to pick up women. if youre not confident, even the best opener will not work. its not what you say, but how you say it.
i cannot offer you any advice on how to deal iwth your inner game as it is unique to each individual. you may little confidence, one-itis or coming to terms with the PU lifestyle. all i can say is that itll take lots of time looking in the mirror and reflection...
i see that you're sarging with solace..my advice to you is to look at what he does and say, but more importantly HOW he is doing/saying it...
i have to run, and will add some stuff later...
..basically, there are two school of thoughs on inner game.
1. inner game, then outer game. work on your inner game and square away all of your issues then develop an outer game.
2. outer game, then inner game. develop mad outer game with a killer arsenal of openers, gambits, routines, etc etc. the belief is that success breeds success (success will build your confidence)...
i for one, lean towards the first school of thought. i have seen some of the better guys in this community hit inner game roadblocks and their game goes to shit; theyre not motivated and cant pull if their life depended on it.
i suggest you work on both at the same time. when youre out sarging, work on some routines/openers and see what works best for your PU style/ personality. when youre at home reflect and write down what your inner game issues are and how you can deal with it...i say work on inner AND outer game at the same time...
having said that,
inner game is the single MOST important factor in your ability to pick up women. let me repeat that. inner game is the single MOST important factor in your ability to pick up women. if youre not confident, even the best opener will not work. its not what you say, but how you say it.
i cannot offer you any advice on how to deal iwth your inner game as it is unique to each individual. you may little confidence, one-itis or coming to terms with the PU lifestyle. all i can say is that itll take lots of time looking in the mirror and reflection...
i see that you're sarging with solace..my advice to you is to look at what he does and say, but more importantly HOW he is doing/saying it...
i have to run, and will add some stuff later...
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by Guest » Mon May 11, 2009 12:07 am
Welcome Sir.
I was the one guy who had a girl with me. It was nice meeting you.
From the two seconds I spent with you it looks like you had a good attitude. That alone will take you far.
Continue to come out with us and I am sure good things will happen for you.
Getting your inner game in check is a process that takes time. Think of it in terms of baby steps. Slowly you will do things to change your mindset. Good things will also start to happen for you and this will also change your mindset. Inner game is dependent on success. Lower your standards, find success, and build off that. That is what I recommend.
I was the one guy who had a girl with me. It was nice meeting you.
From the two seconds I spent with you it looks like you had a good attitude. That alone will take you far.
Continue to come out with us and I am sure good things will happen for you.
Getting your inner game in check is a process that takes time. Think of it in terms of baby steps. Slowly you will do things to change your mindset. Good things will also start to happen for you and this will also change your mindset. Inner game is dependent on success. Lower your standards, find success, and build off that. That is what I recommend.
- Guest
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