Hello everyone.
I am 18 and new to this pua stuff and want to meet puas in the area.
When I stumbled upon this stuff I thought it was the holy grail.
Yeah...
So anyways, I am pretty much desperate to get in some hot chicks.
I wouldn't say I am starting at the lowest of lows because I have had sex, and with what I consider to be a HB7.
I met her at the end of my jr yr in high school.
She was my only gf ever and we went out for a yr and a half.
We were in love and all that shit, or at least I was in love with her.
I was an AFC and supplicated to her every wish; I was whipped big time.
I would say 4 months out of the 18 months our relationship was rocky at the least.
Bitch stopped having sex with me after like month 6!
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Anyways I graduated high school last spring and she is a jr in high school now and we, well I decided we would continue our relationship because I was deeeeeply in love with her.
She said ok and so we did.
Like 2 weeks after she started school she said that a guy at school is always staring at her and she thinks he wants her.
Now this guy was her ex bf she had not two months before she started dating me and she frequently complained about how he used to spread rumors about her and such and she often said she hated him.
Knowing all that information I just laughed what she said off.
Well a week later I get a text from my little brother who is in school with her and friends with that guy and the text says "dude she's dating that guy"
I figured out that was the truth and so I went and broke things off from her.
It tore me apart because I was so heartbroken.
Since then she has had two bfs, both of which are her exs from previous relationships and I just assume now that she is desperate for the dick and a huge slut.
Here I am 4 months after breaking up with her, I have oneitis like a bitch.
I still think about her all the damn time and wonder why she did that to me etc...
I have been following VH1's The Pick Up Artist season 2 and am amazed by it. Around the season finale I was so impressed by the show that I decided to research this pua stuff and that reszearch eventually brought me here.
The point of my story is, I have major oneitis and want improve my game to the point where I can pu a HB and eventually be in a relationship with one. I feel alone. I don't want to be 25 or 30 yrs old and still feel alone and have only laid one chick.
Thank you for reading my loong story.
I hope to meet some of you soon.
jjdog18
Dallas PUA
The Pickup Artist Playground
depressed and impressed
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by Guest » Sun Dec 07, 2008 3:21 am
Welcome.
Drop the negative attitude, it won't get you anywhere. You say you are desperate for hot chicks, don't be. You are the prize and your life is an adventure. If a girl gets to be a part of that, she is lucky. If she isn't, it is her loss.
Do you see the difference in thinking? Don't beat yourself up. Best thing to do is forget the ex gf and move on, there are plenty of great girls out there, many of which are better than your ex.
I look forward to meeting you, make sure to go out to as many events as possible and you will see progress if you are dedicated.
Good Luck.
Drop the negative attitude, it won't get you anywhere. You say you are desperate for hot chicks, don't be. You are the prize and your life is an adventure. If a girl gets to be a part of that, she is lucky. If she isn't, it is her loss.
Do you see the difference in thinking? Don't beat yourself up. Best thing to do is forget the ex gf and move on, there are plenty of great girls out there, many of which are better than your ex.
I look forward to meeting you, make sure to go out to as many events as possible and you will see progress if you are dedicated.
Good Luck.
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by Guest » Sun Dec 07, 2008 5:21 am
hey buddy! ya that chick f'd up. Here you will find many provable theories you can use to develop your own style. start by analyzing your core beliefs about women and think of ways you can change or improve them. I hope to be out soon and sarging. i'll hit you up.
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by Guest » Sun Dec 07, 2008 12:06 pm
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Welcome.
Drop the negative attitude, it won't get you anywhere. You say you are desperate for hot chicks, don't be. You are the prize and your life is an adventure. If a girl gets to be a part of that, she is lucky. If she isn't, it is her loss.
Do you see the difference in thinking? Don't beat yourself up. Best thing to do is forget the ex gf and move on, there are plenty of great girls out there, many of which are better than your ex.
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wow, no truer words have been spoken. well spoken just/us.
you will see a major difference in how sucessful you are if you are not desperate and/or needy. those are some of the things women dislike very much. confidence is HUGE in the game and can really help you be sucessful, so i suggest reading up a little about inner game and you will see your game progress dramatically. i know its tough, but you really need to drop this one-itis attitude because it will only drag you down. hopefully the more you come out and meet girls, you will realize how insignificant she is and will not have one-itis anymore....
good luck on your journey..
Welcome.
Drop the negative attitude, it won't get you anywhere. You say you are desperate for hot chicks, don't be. You are the prize and your life is an adventure. If a girl gets to be a part of that, she is lucky. If she isn't, it is her loss.
Do you see the difference in thinking? Don't beat yourself up. Best thing to do is forget the ex gf and move on, there are plenty of great girls out there, many of which are better than your ex.
[/quote1228669315]
wow, no truer words have been spoken. well spoken just/us.
you will see a major difference in how sucessful you are if you are not desperate and/or needy. those are some of the things women dislike very much. confidence is HUGE in the game and can really help you be sucessful, so i suggest reading up a little about inner game and you will see your game progress dramatically. i know its tough, but you really need to drop this one-itis attitude because it will only drag you down. hopefully the more you come out and meet girls, you will realize how insignificant she is and will not have one-itis anymore....
good luck on your journey..
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by Guest » Mon Dec 08, 2008 5:23 am
Yo young blood, hit and quit it. The only way to get over one chick, is to get under another chick...With your age, read and study and practice. It's a law of averages, the more attempts equals the more closes. Good luck- we're all to cheer you on and push you farther than you thought possible. You occupy yourself with what interests you most-use your time wisely amigo!
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by Guest » Mon Dec 08, 2008 6:55 am
I gotta agree with tx_troy!
Dude said everything that needed to be said about that shit!
People respond your situation in one of two ways: They use it as an excuse to give up or hold on to the past... Or they use that fucking RAGE that only a vagina can produce in a man as motivation!
Which one you want to be?
As gay as it sounds... there is a lot of truth to that scene in Waterboy about "tackling fuel". You want to use EVERYTHING to your advantage! When something good happens... I roll with it. When something terrible happens... I use it motivation to ensure it never happens again! If only to prove myself to myself. This is a matter of perception = reality. You want skew the world around you so that everything is positive and is either the product or the cause of your self improvement.
Don't let that ho get to you man. Learn from your successes and your failures and never EVER fucking quit!
You're young! Fuck it dude! Set goals and achieve them! That's all any man can ask of himself. Anyone who stands in the way of those goals is not worth your time or effort.
-The Gospel According to Priest-
Dude said everything that needed to be said about that shit!
People respond your situation in one of two ways: They use it as an excuse to give up or hold on to the past... Or they use that fucking RAGE that only a vagina can produce in a man as motivation!
Which one you want to be?
As gay as it sounds... there is a lot of truth to that scene in Waterboy about "tackling fuel". You want to use EVERYTHING to your advantage! When something good happens... I roll with it. When something terrible happens... I use it motivation to ensure it never happens again! If only to prove myself to myself. This is a matter of perception = reality. You want skew the world around you so that everything is positive and is either the product or the cause of your self improvement.
Don't let that ho get to you man. Learn from your successes and your failures and never EVER fucking quit!
You're young! Fuck it dude! Set goals and achieve them! That's all any man can ask of himself. Anyone who stands in the way of those goals is not worth your time or effort.
-The Gospel According to Priest-
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