Allow Myself to Reintroduce Myself

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Allow Myself to Reintroduce Myself

Postby Rhody » Wed Mar 14, 2007 9:36 am

I first learned about the community when I got separated from my ex-wife at the end of May of last year. Actually, it didn't take me long to get into another relationship, because I had been lusting after my legal assistant while I was married. But when I told my friend who lives in Chicago that I was joining the divorce force, he sent me a link to fastseduction.com as a half joke. I looked at it, but didn't really follow through.

The relationship with my former co-worker only lasted a couple of months, so I tried online dating. I had some success there. In fact, I was meeting a lot of women my age who were sick of the bar scene. I'm pretty good on dates and a lot of the women I met were interested in me. But I found them to be BORING! So I started shooting for younger women. I dated a girl who was 10 years younger than I, but she turned into a psycho (she even recently offered a "friends with benefits" (her words) arrangement to me, but she's too psycho).

After that, I started to wonder why I always ended up in serious relationships. How was this happening? I was in a pattern of attracting a woman, getting exclusive and serious with her, and then realizing that she wasn't what I wanted. I realized that maybe I wasn't done with the bar scene. I may be in my late 30s, I may have had some hot girlfriends, a beautiful wife, an awesome kid, etc., but I'm pretty immature when it comes to relationships.

So I started looking through the fastseduction Web site. From there, I turned to the Venusian Arts Handbook. Then, I started to talk to my friend in Chicago, who has been in the community for a few years. I visited him and he turned me onto Juggler and Tyler Durden. Now I'm armed with some really good information. I'm starting to figure out what material suits my personality. I've met a lot of you at events and in the field. And, I'm practicing the material in the field with some good results.

This has transformed me into a better, more interesting person. Not only do I have much less approach anxiety when cold approaching women in bars, but I'm approaching everybody. I'm becoming the outgoing, fun, interesting guy I always wanted to be.

I think my sticking point is qualifying and isolating. I can open a set, talk to a target, and get a #close. However, even though I get a real number, I have a hard time getting the girl to answer or return my calls. I need to work on calibration so I'm pushing the right buttons for attraction and isolating for a little comfort before getting the number or any other close.
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Postby H3v3n » Thu Mar 15, 2007 8:26 am

Welcome. Nice to see you back in the game. I have a similar sticking point, but practice makes perfect!
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