New to this, British guy in Dallas

[rymetymeuk]

Hey all

Well, I got The Game recommended to me, I have been reading it for a week and have found so much in there that I never knew/would be afraid to try.

I'm 29 and am reasonably attractive, but I suck at many aspects of interaction, and am hoping to learn some skills and get out there with some like minded friends to practice practice practice!! (and get a few numbers in the process!)

Thanks all!

[Gamble]

Well... what problems do you see in your game? You say that you would be afraid to try some of the things in The Game and this sounds like a little bit of AA influencing your woo. (Yes, Rockstar, I said woo) If you have AA, I have something to help. Send me a PM if you want to take the Noobie Challenge with me. I'm due for a little practice myself.

I'd be glad to help you out with it.

[rymetymeuk]

Hey Gamble

I guess my biggest weakness is not having interesting topics to talk about, so I get flustered and i'm sure I come across as not being particularly fun. I also lack the courage to go up to randoms and just get talking.

I'd be interested in the noobie challenge for sure, anything to work on that will help me get some balls!

thanks for the reply man.

[Scoundrel]

Here's what you should do, go out and talk to every woman you see. Just say "Hi, you are too cute. I have to meet you. What's your name?" Then shake her hand ad tell her your name. After that tell her you are new in town and want to know where the cool bars are to hang out in. After she tells you tell her how cool she is, give her a hug and say you should make her your tour guide. This is roll play. Later you can fire her or give her a raise.

Start with that and after several sets you will know what to talk about. Don't lean in and don't chase. If she doesn't hook say thanks and walk away. There is no chance of rejection with this. You are just asking about where to go for a fun time.

Being a Brit gives you an advantage. Women will love the accent.

Good luck.

[rymetymeuk]

that's a good idea, I'll try that and let you know what the results are like! It's gonna be a confidence building thing, so if it achieves that goal then it'll be all good..
thanks!

[sweetdaddy]

The accent will be a plus here for you as mine was a plus for me when I was over on your side of the pond.

[Scoundrel]

that's a good idea, I'll try that and let you know what the results are like! It's gonna be a confidence building thing, so if it achieves that goal then it'll be all good..
thanks!

Happy to help. This stuff is really much easier than most guys think. All you have to do is be relaxed, friendly, confident and don't hit on her until after she's attracted and you have qualified her.

1. Open
2. Attract
3. Qualify
4. Get the number.

But, don't forget to kino! Very important.